Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Kembali Ke KPP Pratama Sleman

Memang belum genap 3 tahun CDTN-ku habis, bahkan masih sisa 10 bulan. Tapi berbagai perencanaan 'back to work' mesti dipersiapkan dan dirancang dengan baik. Sebab urusan masuk kerja lagi kan kaitannya dengan penyesuaian/persiapan diri sekaligus penyesuaian keluarga dengan perubahan ritme Ummi. Syafiq biasanya diasuh Ummi jadi diasuh orang lain seperti 'sekolah bayi' atau nursery yang mulai banyak diadakan di TKIT. Asya masuk kelas 1 SDIT Alam NI tapi transfer dari HS. Sayyid 'back to' kelas lamanya di SDIT Alam, mesti penyesuaian dari HS juga.

Bulan Maret 2010 Ummi mesti buat surat laporan menjelang habisnya CDTN ke Kantor Pelayanan Pajak Pratama Sleman (KPP Pratama Sleman). Semoga semuanya lancar...Amin.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Overstimulasi Pada Anak

Untuk mendukung tumbuh kembang anak diperlukan stimulasi sejak bayi. Stimulasi akan merangsang kecerdasan otak anak dan merangsang pula berbagai potensi dalam diri anak. Namun demikian stimulasi yang melebihi porsinya justru bisa berakibat tidak baik terhadap si anak. Demikian uraian dalam artikel mengenai tumbuh kembang anak pada link kompas online berikut : http://female.kompas.com/read/xml/2010/10/20/11140865/Bahaya.Overstimulasi.pada.Anak-5

Jadi buatlah stimulasi yang sesuai untuk kemampuan anak. Caranya kita harus mengamati respon anak setelah distimulasi, amati secara seksama. Misal anak kita 1,5 tahun kita ajak menyusun ring donat ternyata melempar semua ring dengan menangis jangan diteruskan permainan. Mungkin si anak capek, ngantuk atau lapar. Kalau anak tertarik ikut memasukkan ring pada tiangnya bisa kita teruskan sambil menyebutkan warna-warni ring dst. Contoh lain saat si anak belum kuat berjalan jangan dipaksa dititah (jalan sambil dipegangi dua tangannya), mungkin baru mampu dorong2 kursi dsb. Mari kita jalani kebersamaan dengan buah hati kita dan memberikan stimulasi yang sesuai.

Sunday, October 17, 2010

why homeschooling?

education for children is the most important of parental responsibilities. it's better for parents to get many knowledges or information about children education although parents decide to send their children to public schools. we have to know how to educate them and choose the best school for them. what does it mean? does the best school mean expensive? does it mean popular? maybe i can write down about the criteria of best school in other posting. so the important point is children have to get good education.

since we disappointed with the schools where our children being educated in "Negeri Jiran", we decided to homeschool them. we couldn't find any schools that love and appreciate our children also understand their soul. fortunately my husband and i like children's world and like playing with them. and we always try to build a good communication with them. when we make mistake we appologize so do they. we have many activities together as family program such as reading books, reading alquran,praying, fast, sports, playing, gardening, cooking etc ...doing many things. so homeschooling become more effective than study at school for us in this country.

so homeschooling is the best thing we can do to educate our beloved children. homeschooling means we have to learn about children education more deeply and widely. homeschooling means we have to build fun learning. homeschooling means we are as parents, teachers and friends. it's not easy but not difficult too. just enjoy fun learning at home. learning everywhere about anything. never afraid fail when we're learning something. May Allah bless us.